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My last few posts
- It’s good to be back 19 February 2017
- Books & chat: what more could we want? 2 October 2016
- An Evening Tale 18 April 2016
- Understanding your productivity & motivation: A self-assessment questionnaire for prospective adopters 8 January 2016
- Becoming the Little Man – and (just about) nodding us onwards 25 October 2015
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Inspiration here: blogs I follow
- A stitch in time
- Minute Particulars
- adoptingeachother
- Make It 2 Me
- AdoptedTwo
- Mama's Sunshine
- thewidgetwheel
- Mayhem and Stardust
- AdoptiveBlackMom
- Adopting Safe Mummy Ways
- Sally Donovan
- insidethelifeofmoi
- Adopting Mummy
- itsmotherswork
- Confessions of an Authoritarian Parent
- myselfandshe
- purpletexan
- birthmum
- motherinferiorblog
- smithdeville
Tag Archives: adoption journey
Looking back: my adoption journey so far through the Pedalling Solo lens
I’ve been officially on my adoption journey for over a year now – not counting the years of thinking about it before I officially picked up the phone for the first time – and I’ve been blogging about it on and … Continue reading
Posted in Adoption, Blogging
Tagged #NaBloPoMo, #WASO, adoption, adoption journey, family and friends, learning, potential adopter
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Honouring their stories: an evening of reading children’s CPRs
Sometimes being a prospective adopter is hard. This evening I have spent a good part of my evening reading CPRs (Child Permanence Reports). These reports detail a child’s history (personal, family, health); the various events, records and interventions that will … Continue reading
Posted in Adoption
Tagged #NaBloPoMo, adoption journey, Child Permanence Report, CPR, potential adopter
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Patience
Patience. I know patience is often described as a virtue. I wonder if that is simply because it is so difficult. Situations that are particularly relevant to us always heighten our sensitivity to related sights and sounds. Maybe I’m in a place similar … Continue reading
In which I ask myself quite why #NaBloPoMo seemed a good idea?
Periodically I set myself targets and challenges. It’s something I’ve done all my life, but in recent times good examples are Janathon (jogging and blogging about it every day in January) and #2013in2013 when I made myself walk, run or … Continue reading
Posted in Adoption, Blogging, Life in all its many colours
Tagged #NaBloPoMo, #WASO, adoption journey, learning, writing
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National Adoption Week: sprinkled with irony
Today is the first day of National Adoption Week. The focus this year is on the need for adopters to come forward who feel willing and able to adopt sibling groups. There’s no question that with 49% of children currently … Continue reading
My own personal theme park ride
I’ve written already of the twists, turns and emotional roller coaster of matching, along with the endless waiting throughout the journey. I am not sure, all the same, that the particular theme park ride I seem to have been thrust … Continue reading
Posted in Adoption
Tagged #NaBloPoMo, #WASO, adoption, adoption journey, family and friends, grief, Matching Panel
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Linking and Matching Part 2: getting personal
So … yes this is linking and matching part 2! If you’re interested in the basics of what happens during linking and matching – how it works, who does what, where you can go to see which children might meet … Continue reading
Posted in Adoption
Tagged adoption, adoption hopes, adoption journey, doubt, emotionally drained, family and friends, linking, matching, social worker
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Linking and Matching Part 1: the practicalities
I decided that Linking and Matching required a whole blog post of their own for, at least to me, it was a strange, difficult, edge of the seat, challenging time. However, now I’ve started I’ve found out I have so much to … Continue reading
Approved!
I have previously written of my Approval Panel – a happy, odd, good occasion, shared with my lovely amazing mother (and my thoughtful and supportive Social Worker too). Spotting, opening and reading the notification from the Agency Decision Maker (ADM) a few days … Continue reading
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Tagged adoption, adoption journey, approval panel, Mum, potential adopter
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The “Adoption Wait”
I don’t really know why they (we) call what we go through between initial enquiry and placement the Adoption Process or even the Adoption Journey. If I am honest I suspect those in the know must surely refer to it as … Continue reading
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Tagged #WASO, adoption, adoption journey, Adoption Wait, potential adopter
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